#65::My first E- book for you all On “LOVE YOUR LIFE” #wondertips:By Vk Chaudhry

BOOK IS DEDICATED FOR MY LATE MOTHER & YOUNGER BROTHER NARENDER

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My e book

Love Your Life अपनी जिन्दगी को जिए प्यार से।

Tips to keep your audience inspired & happy

          Preface

Author is experienced technical graduate more than 38 years experience in textiles. I have attended lot of seminars, workshops and training programs. During my office life I realised that I am very good motivator for my team. I was taking regular motivational and educational classes for my associates. I do not remember that I had to speak wrong in my meetings. Last 2.5 years I read about 35 non- fictional books. I could see that i can give something to masses. I realised that giving is loving. So I started writing this small gift to my readers in the form of  book. Hope this book will give you full satisfaction. I need your best corporation and feedback to improve further.

I want to dedicate this small gift to my Late mother & Younger Brother.Without their blessings this could not have been possible. My mother was fond of praising my Loving father’s book writing work. My father is Great as he has passanate love for writing .With genes from family I have tried starting with E-BOOK for you all.

Contents
1. Meditation
2. Love yourself
3 . Love mankind
4. Believe in yourself
5. You can do miracles
6. Love your parents
7. Love your family
8. Passion in work
9. Grow your mind as kitchen garden
10. Make your branding
11. Be happy
12. Nobody can make you happy make you sad
13. Positivity in life
14. Control your Words
15 . Smile costs nothing
16. Work smartly
17. Make goals
18. Never give up
19. Discipline pays
20. Minimum use of television
21. Regular exercises, yoga & games
22. Multi skilling need of the hour
23. Motivational speaking
24. Become leader not boss
25. Listening is best habit
26. Make your brand story
27. Write a book in your life
28. Live Happy and satisfied
29. Work hard has no matching
30. Learn anything in 24 hours
31 Execute execute execute
32. Learn learn and learn
33. Keep calm
34. Avoid procrastination

1. Meditation
We are living in a very competitive time. We need regular upliftment in mental power. We may very healthy physically . We need to be very peaceful from inside. Our self confidence is key to success. Self confidence cannot be achieved buy any tonic or medicine. To achieve this we need regular time vineet regular fix time meditation. It helps us to make bridge between our
outside and inner side.
We have to do meditation from 15 minutes to 30 minutes  morning  & evening time daily basis. It will help us to regain peace of mind. Then we will be able to achieve success in our life. So will be doing meditation without fail.

2. Love yourself
We observe in our daily life that people are not loving themselves. Their body language looks very bleak. When love ourselves then and only then we will love people. So it is very important that you take care of yourself. We need good health ,we need good body structure. We should feel smart throughout the day.

3. Love mankind
We have to love all as they are god loving kids . When we love mankind expecting anything in return ,god becomes very happy. Persons who are loving these creatures, in return they give blessings. Thinking thinking for the betterment of others is really a good person. God will keep him very happy. We should always try to love all. These days people are becoming very very selfish. Not good at all. Always love God’s creativity .
4. Believe in yourself

We have to believe in ourself. Believing is winning. We have to win inlife. So it becomes very important to believe in ourself. One time in a seminar motivational speaker asked a question. How many years you will survive? Everybody was surprised. Then some people told they don’t know. Some told the will live for 80yrs Plus. Persons answered were having solid self belief.

5. You can do miracles
It is very true. We can do miracles. When we have self belief and self confidence then nobody can stop us. Success needs only these tools. These type of breed live only in positive frame of mind. We can take example of cricket. Nobody made 200 runs in one day match. When Sachin Tendulkar made then rohit Sharma did it 3 times. Miracles happen with self belief. That’s why Virat Kohli is coming very fast near sachin Tendulkar’s records.

6. Love your parents

Parents are our fast guru. They bring us in this universe which is full of selfish people. Parents teachers ABCD of this world. We should touch feet of our parents on daily basis and get blessings. Persons staying away can talk with their parents on daily basis. Now a days social media and phones are very very good media to connect easily. There is very good saying homes where parents are happy god lives there.
So dear friends keep your parents happy as  they have kept us happy in our childhood. But we are seeing that in many homes things are not in line. Parents  are very unhappy. They are forced to live in old age homes. Parents were brought us fantastic manner are now crying glass of water and two times food. How you can expect that God will be happy with this type of persons.

7. Love your family members
These days we find that combined family culture has gone  far away. Only few family live together. In combined families parents control better than anyone. Children and family members love each other take care for each other. Bonding becomes very strong. They are able to withstand any problem together., Similarly on happy moments they all enjoy. One has to adjust in combined family. Ego has to be finished for better relations.

8. Passion in work

Success is the Hallmark of life. We have to excel in life. As discussed earlier we need to have passion in our work. Passion is required everywhere. Sometime we see
That some people not able to enjoy their work. Their passion is missing. So my friends we can  get success in any job, business & field. Once bruce Lee told that he do not afraid of any competition. But he is afraid if someone has done single move 10000 Times. This can be done only with passion.

9. Grow your mind as kitchen garden

Our mind super calculator. It is capable of taking decisions very fast. Positive attitude gives it super power. We  can develop it further like our kitchen garden. Some people do not buy any vegetable from market. They develop it their kitchen garden. With little hardwork we can reap dividends. So with positivity hard work we can develop our mind like a parachute. Meditation helps to get our mind in top condition. We can do miracles in our life.

10. Make your branding


To be successful in life how to make our branding. Branding we understand from garments, shoes many more items. But these days human branding is very demanding. We have to be very disciplined to be successful. We really need to be a very good book reader. We should make habit to read minimum 5 pages  daily. In this way you will be able to read at least 20 books per annum. You will find that something new is coming in your thinking. This will be termed as branding of your personality. You know the value of brand.
Similarly you will be youTube channel, writing a book and digital marketing inputs will keep you above masses.

11. Be happy

One should always remain happy. Happy mood can create best working atmosphere. When persons of not working together in harmony then work performance takes downward direction. On the other hand we should make others happy. It can be done by giving only. Giving nature Gives you happiness. When we respect our parents they become happy. Similarly you give something to your kids they become happy.
Same way when we are sharing our knowledge with friends and community then happiness is bound to come.

12. Nobody can make you happy make you sad

Friends it is very true that nobody can make you happy and nobody can make you sad. It is only your attitude which makes you happy or sad. See here importance of happiness which depends on your attitude. When you are having positive and dashing attitude then you are bound to get success. In adverse situation also we have to be very positive and happy. Our happiness gives us energy.

13. Positivity in life

Positivity  in life gives us everything we desire. Without Positive attitude we can not go anywhere. We can not get success. We can solve lot of problems in life which looks to be self made. Once you are positive then sky is the limit. Positivity in life can be attained with self belief and self confidence. There was one match in Pakistan when Indian team was not playing good test match. Sachin Tendulkar was young guy and Navjot Sidhu on the crease. They were playing fast bowling. Sachin Tendulkar was hit down by one fast bowler bouncer. Sachin was asked by senior partner Sidhu to go to pavilion. But Sachin told mein khelega.Both saved test match on that day.

14. Control your Words

We have  to control our tongue. It has created lot of problems in families unity and on different levels. Image of tongue can create very bad atmosphere and controlling of the tongue very harmonious atmosphere in business &  workplaces. It it is very simple loving personality in place community.


15 . Smile costs nothing

Smile costs nothing. You are having smiling face then you can win many hearts. In this competitive world people do not understand this simple theory. They are jealous with one another. Suppose you are standing in a queue at the window of picture, pass smile and get your work done.
    Similarly you can do lot of work with great ease. Nothing is late in life you can start smiling without any further delay.

16. Work smartly

We have to work very smartly to get success in life. Some people confused themselves in smart work and hard work. Hard work means lot of time and effort doing a certain work. But smart work means spending less time to get quality work.


17. Make smart goals

To be successful we have to make our goals very smart which are
S-Specific
M-Measurable
A-Attainable
R- Relevant
T-Time bound
Set your goals as mentioned  & make them happen. We have to give good thought process to have smart goals.
We have to imagine our future & then make goals accordingly.
Setting of goals gives direction to our life.Goals are different for students   , business man & service persons. To make life happiest  we have to make attainable goals.

18. Never give up


Those who succeed achieving their dreams always have one quality in common : They never give up in any difficulty.
Never give up mentality wake up our mind conditioned to think positive. No one can defeat such person.
We have heard  a story that even last key of the bunch opens the lock.
We should be changing our perspective to the situation with persistent nature. We have to develop gritty attitude.

19. Discipline pays in life
Disciplined persons are always tough. Discipline is a concept everyone is aware of but few truly understand. The most successful people make a habit of disciplined  life. Discipline drinks stability and structure into person’s life. Discipline is an essential part of our life .Without discipline life cannot work smoothly.
Discipline full successful and happy life. Discipline is very important for students in early stage. Discipline also means punctual and leading a successful automatic life. We can see disciplined  toppers in each aspect of life.

20. Minimum use of television

We should use television to the minimum limit. We can say it is an idiot’s box.We sit for hours simply watching any programme  or matches. No one things the amount of valuable time we loose in this. What we get after watching match.
  We can save our valuable time which can make your super branding.
Same time can be utilized in Book reading  or writing.
Same way we see same news several times daily .

21. Regular exercises, yoga & games

Regular disciplined  morning excercise yoga & sports loving  schedule paves the way for happiness. We should be very regular in exercises. Sometimes our heart says to remain in comfortable zone. We have to come out for regular schedule. It gives us abundance of energy throughout the day. Author is regular Morning Walker.

22. Multi skilling need of the hour

Today’s cut throat competition  atmosphere we need to be multi Talented person. We get importance inlife when we are skilled person in any walk of life. In our manufacturing line We see some operaters are very very skillful in their departments.
             All love these guys with extra skills. Same way you can get all skill in your armoury.

23. Motivational speaking

Motivational speaking is an art which is not possible for all.Today we have so many good motivational speakers.They change the life of their team members. My purpose for motivational speaking is to avoid wrong notions among people for relations, poor thinking, depression & positive vibes. Person should be so motivated that morale character becomes best.When person is highly motivated then results are bound to come. So we have to keep our energy  level on top to touch sky.

24. Become leader not boss

We have to lead from the front. We can see from cricket match. Virat Kohli’s leading the team from the front. He is going very fast speed . He is probably going to break all records of Indiam cricket God Sachin Tendulkar.

We  have to get the best out of our team.This thinking is going to help everyone at home & organisation.
Bossing always gives discomfort to others.

25. Listening is best habit

In today’s hi tech hi speed competitive world , communication has become very important than ever. Genuine listening has become rare gift of the time. It helps build relationships solve major problems and better understanding. Listening also builds friendships and careers. Saves many relationships.
During good listening Eye to eye contact is must.

Why should be very attentive and relaxed. You should also mind open. We Should listen to the words of the speaker in try to picture whst speaker is saying.
We should not interrupt & should not impose our solutions.

  26. Make your brand story
We see branding of any product or company or ourself is must. Stability and profitability stability and profitabilityto all comes with branding.

We have to research on our target audience and our competitors.
Need to focus product aur personality with proper name of business. We should choose our slogan logo colours.
Then our branding is registered.

Similarly we have how to make our own branding. This can be done with motivational speaking and book reading. Book reading helps a lot in making your own brand. At least 10 pages per day or one book per week.

27. Write a book in your life
Till I was 56 years old ,I was not thinking to write a book. But as soon as I met with authors and motivational speakers ..
I decided to write a book. Dear friends this is my first book which will be reaching you soon. I have read about t
30 books in lat 14 months. It has changed my thinking. Believe in yourself you will also feel the same after reading my book. Life is very short and we have to enjoy fully. So start writing a book of your desired content.

28. Live Happy and satisfied
Main theme of my book is to live happy and satisfied. You can try to Your best level after that leave in God’s hands. Overthinking do not solve problems. Make your relationship better and better. Enjoy every moment of your life. Love your parents , respect them. Get their blessings go for fun in your life.

29. Work hard has no matching

Hard work is the most important key to success. We cannot achieve any great achievement without hard work. We cannot sit and wait for success or good opportunity. Any person working hard is able to gain great success & happiness in life.

Author has worked for long 39 years in textile industry. Great Industry indeed. I have done super hardwork in my life . That hard work has given me self belief. I have learnt a lot with hardworking attitude. Hardworking nature you can win heart many friends.  If you work hard then you can dream big. As we see  how a bestman or bowler work hard to give their best performance. Who so ever works hard gets the top honours.
  We have many examples hard work leading to success. Maybe Sachin Tendulkar virat Kohli sunil Gavaskar, all have given their best with work. So hard work should be the password to success in our life.Go ahead & make your destiny.

30. Learn anything in 20 hours
We can learn Any new thing in exactly 20 hrs .But can be done in 5 principles .Why you want to learn?Any work can be divided in parts.You need not to be on top of everything. Like you can be good batsman but not Sachin or Virat.
Similarly you can be a good dancer but not like Jackson.
Focus should be top of your skill without any distruction.
We should not procrastinate.
We have to come for solid commitment for 20 hours for any damn skill learning.Any skill can be learnt in only 20 hours if your desire is unshakable.

31 Execute execute execute
Execution is only way to achieve success.We plan too much in meetings & thought  process.But we have to take action on any plan otherwise you can not succeed.
Basically we have to plan any strategy  then execution it with whole hearted efforts to get success in life.

So it is very clear that to be successful we have to plan & then execution is main way to completion of any task.
One very good saying is
Without knowledge action is useless & knowledge without action is futile.

32. Learn learn and learn

We an anything in life. Only depends on your de) sire. Whenever there is a will there is a way. Everyone has life experience. It may be technical, financial or self development. Everyone is learning. Author has 39 years of experience in textiles. After passing out  from textile engineering college. I did many things during sd o msny years. After going through various stages of life , fully satisfied the way i lead my life with the corporation of my family members, friends and coworkers. Everybody added value to my life. I tried to give hundred percent from my side. I am very thankful to my trainers, seniors & colleagues.

33. Keep calm
Life gives various lessons. Best lesson of the life is keep calm in every situation. It will resolve all your issues. You are never late this rule life. We can say that you can win in any situation if you are keeping yourself cool and calm.


34. Avoid procrastination :

We should not procrastinate anything in our day to day life. It is delaying our tasks in hand. It is not good at all for our life progress.We need to be sincere. There is old Saying::

KAL KARE SO AAJ KAR , AAJ KARE SO AB.PAL MEIN PRALYA HOGI FIR KAREGA KAB

SO DONOT POSTPHONE OR DELAY. YOU CAN MAKE YOUR LIST & FINISH WITH THE DAY.

ACKNOWLEDGMENTS

I have relied heavily on my thoughts given in as a gift by my Great Parents. My father has been my main hero. I have seen him writing since our childhood.I was not able to do in my early years but point was always coming in mind that definitely my father’s genes should has inspired me for writing a book.Then I attended some seminars & they hammered to write atleast one book on yourself in your life. This ignited super thought to start writing.I am very positive & contented person but always try to follow NEVER GIVE UP in life strategy.I am thankful to each member of my great combined family.

In last 2 years i have gone through 35 books of nonfictional catagory.This has changed my entire thinking.Now i have thought to do something good for masses without any expectation.I would like to thank all my books authors especially CalNewport.com,jamesclear.com,robinsharma.com

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